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For a while….
It is December and we are at the end of one year and on the brink of entering a new one. In the northern hemisphere what precedes the birth of the new year is the winter solstice, the longest night of the year. It is also the time of the new moon when even its light...
Receiving Gratitude
We are coming up to Thanksgiving and thoughts are going toward what we are thankful for in our lives. In general throughout the year I saw spontaneous expressions of gratitude as postings on Facebook and spoke with people who were keeping a daily gratitude journal. I...
The Mask We Wear
I had been participating in a year long heart centered business program. Our group was meeting for our final session at a beautiful retreat space in Asheville. While we were expecting to dive into business our first day, in a sudden twist our coach led us in a...
Transition and Transformation
The fall equinox is in a couple of weeks and though the weather here in Western North Carolina is hot and sultry, there are subtle signs that change is coming. We are coming to a still point, that moment when movement ceases before a new direction is taken. It is that...
A Life’s Path
I was in a conversation with a friend of mine who asked me about my recent experiences at the U.S. Constellation Intensive. I told her how amazing it is to see someone who had been struggling with something in their current life situation or with a lifelong burden of...
Being Comfortable In The Don’t Know
There is a difference between the phrase to know and knowingness. The mind thinks is knows, but much of that mind knowing is really a story that people have either written themselves or they believed someone else's story. We are continually bombarded by information to...
The Backstory Of Our Lives
We inherit more in our DNA than just the genes for blue eyes or brown hair. We inherit the stories and experiences of our ancestors which included our family, community, culture and homeland. I have always been an avid reader and in books as well as television shows...
When You Do Things From Your Soul
“When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy.” Jalaluddin Rumi, translated by Coleman Barks, We Are Three.
This was in my inbox today and seemed to be perfect timing, The Universe is funny that way. I have been asked why I want to facilitate Constellation work, how has it touched me personally. The short answer would be because in that moment I am with someone, when I am facilitating connection, there is nowhere else on earth I would rather be.
Special Last Journey
Sometimes in our family field the place where love is stuck is from a time when those who died were not honored, when there was no ceremony done to mark the passing from life. Perhaps when that person died there was no time to do ceremony around the transition from...
We Are The Village
I heard Jean Houston recount how when she was in Africa she saw a village look at its problem with sanitation by coming together as a community and singing and dancing until the solution appeared. To our Western mind that would seem to be a ridiculous way to handle...
